Quotes

gue punya hobi dan hobi gue itu ngumpulin quotes ye haha dan ini beberapa quotes favorit guee.
gue juga bikin beberapa tapi gak gue show disini abisnya jeleek haha
gue suka baca quotes tentang cinta dan motivasi :)

motivational quotes
I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.

-Og Mandino

"There is the difference between happiness and wisdom, that he that thinks himself the happiest man really is so; but he that thinks himself the wisest is generally the greatest fool." Charles Caleb Colton

"Focusing your life solely on making a buck shows a poverty of ambition. It asks too little of yourself. And it will leave you unfulfilled." Barack Obama

"Yesterday I dared to struggle. Today I dare to win." Bernadette Devlin

"I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life and that is why I succeed." Michael Jordan

"What I must do is all that concerns me, not what the people think. This rule, equally arduous in actual and intellectual life, may serve for the whole distinction between greatness and meanness. It is the harder, because you will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it. It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great person is one who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude." Ralph Waldo Emerson

love quotes
"How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love?" Albert Einstein

"Where love rules, there is no will to power; and where power predominates, there love is lacking. The one is the shadow of the other." Carl Jung

"Infantile love follows the principle: "I love because I am loved."
Mature love follows the principle: "I am loved because I love."
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you."" Erich Fromm

"When we feel love and kindness toward others, it not only makes others feel loved and cared for, but it helps us also to develop inner happiness and peace." Dalai Lama

"Your body needs to be held and to hold, to be touched and to touch. None of these needs is to be despised, denied, or repressed. But you have to keep searching for your body's deeper need, the need for genuine love. Every time you are able to go beyond the body's superficial desires for love, you are bringing your body home and moving toward integration and unity." Henri Nouwen

"Love is like pi - natural, irrational, and very important." Lisa Hoffman

Things NOT to do when you have a problem.

Ini pernah ya, tapi gue ulang lagi so I'll make myself clear!
1. Ngehindarin.
Need I say more? Ngehindarin gabakal nyelesein masalah, justru malah bisa aja lo nyesel lo gak ngelewatin masalah itu. Masalah bikin lo lebih kuat! Mungkin nambah stres, tapi.... INGET! Lo harus ngelewatin itu
2. Negative thinking.
Ini juga gaperlu dijelasin lagi, lo BENER-BENER gaboleh! Kalo lo udah setres ato panik duluan. Lo gak bakal bisa mikir dengan jernih, pikiran lo malah terpusat ke masalah lo, bukan ke cara nyelesainnya. Tenang, dan pikir dengan kepala dingin caranya!
3. Insult.
Apalagi kalo ngatainnya di fb ato twitter! Waduh, pengecut banget lo. Kesel boleh, tapi kalo udah ngata-ngatain di tempat umum......JANGAN! Mendingan curhat atau tulis di tempat yang nggak seluruh dunia bakalan tau.
4. Ganggu privasi orang
Misalnya buka smsnya tanpa ijin, coba buka-buka fb atau twitternya, untuk ngeliat hal-hal jahat yang mereka bilang ke elo. Hey, emangnya lo mau digituin? Sms itu privasi loh, jadi jangan pernah buka-buka. Justru malah kalo lo emang nemuin hal yang mereka bilang ke elo, bisa bikin lo sakit hati dan malah ngelakuin hal-hal yang sebenarnya gak boleh lo lakuin!
5. Turn to drugs/alcohol.
Tolong banget, jangan. Silahkan teriak-teriak, tulis hal-hal jahat tentang dia, tapi jangan coba make. Ini sama aja lo memperparah keadaan.........udahlah gausah gue tulis lagi akibatnya

senangnya~

cuma butuh waktu sebulan untuk nyadar kalo dia tuh brengsek uouo~~ yaay

Me.

You are Yellow Raccoon, who is innocent and depends on people.
You are also amiable and graceful.
You tend to take passive attitude with gentle and modest ways of expression.
You are well liked by both men and women.
You listen to others well, and try to adapt to them.
This makes you feel your emotions are being opressed, and therefore you may suffer mentally.
Unlike your modesty, you hate being restricted.
You want to do whatever you like, and when you like.
You are rather temperament, and are emotionally delicate.
You have great artistic sense, and if you come in touch especially with traditional and ancient things, fortune will smile on you.
It may be good to make museum tours as your hobby.
You are not good at housework; you prefer to work on something you like.
When you get to the middle ages, you may take an interest in spiritual world.
You may experience great change in life.
You live your life steadily, so you shouldn't rush into things.
You have strong motherly feelings, and people depend on you a lot.
After getting married, you will keep your house well.

OKE INI SANGATLAH MENYERAMKAN

heem

gue heran udah lama ya gue pdkt sama dia tapi kok belom nembak jugaa? aneh lu -_- hem udah ah bloggy gue sabar aja deh yaa ntar gue juga tau dia mau ama gue ato kaga haha

jadi...

gue udah delete beberapa posts gue yang sangatlah suram dan depresi, huehue. soalnya gue udah punya buku buat nulis hal-hal itu!! =D gaperlu lagi membiarkan seluruh dunia tau =D uauauauaaaa

Wishlists!!

Oke gue lagi mood ngepost nih haha, nah gue mau nulis hal-hal yang gue pengenin :D

1. BLACKBERRY CURVE 8320!!
yah inilah hape yang gue pengenin, soalnya bisa ubertwitter!! maklum pecinta twitter huehue. terus keypad nya qwerty makanya gue pengen banget. dan gue kan suka foto-foto gapenting tuh nah abis difoto bisa langsung dimasukin ke fb jadi seru kaan. internet Curve sih lemote tapi yah......ini yang kira-kira bokap bisa afford hehe. DOAIN GUE MENANG LOMBA B.INGGRIS YA!! biar bokap mau beliin. gak janjiin sih dia tapi pengen surprise aja biar dia bisa tau kalo gue berhak dapetin ini ayeey

2. IPOD TOUCH!!
BISA WIFI!! AYEEY~ kakak gue minta dibeliin ini sih fufufu~~

3. HEAPS OF BOOKS!!
gue tuh suka banget baca!! hehe. makanya gue mau buku-buku gt dec biar gue tambah pinter dan nambah wawasan. gue gacape loh baca, asalkan gak bosenin haha

4. BADAN LENTUR!!
gue pengen bangeet punya badan lentuuur, hem guenya males olahraga sih haha. abis kalo olahraga gue gasuka banget dipaksain, misalnya lari harus cepet blablabla yah gue sih bisa lari sendiri tapi siapa yang nemenin? heem, pokoknya gue pengen punya badan lentur!! biar bisa senam ehehe

5. BANYAK TEMEN!!
sebodo teuing lah mau eksis mau kaga, mau lebih tua atau lebih muda, yang penting gue mau punya banyak temen! dan gasuka mt kayak si blahblahblahdoobeedoo uouo

What I want to be and do before I die

oke jadi gue mau jelasin gue mau jadi apa kalo udah gede sama apa yang mau gue lakuin sebelom meninggal!! *wallahu alam, tapi gue punya keinginan*

hem jadi gue tuh impian gue banyak yaa, mau jadi pesenam lah, detektif lah, artis lah, penyanyi lah, guru lah, itu lah ini lah haha. tapi gue tau kok arah hidup gue mau kemana.
jadi gue tuh pengen banget jadi PENULIS!! dulu gue suka nulis fiksi gt ya haha sampe sekarang sih gue suka ngayal gt WAKAKAK tapi gue kayaknya lebih jago nulis non-fiksi.
Makanya ntar gue mau nulis buku soal relationship advice!! Hehe gue sih belom pernah pacaran but I've seen them and I've learned from them :) terus bestseller gitu deh dan dijadiin film, terus guenya jadi penulis skenario dan ngalahin harry potter HAHA oke itu ngayal ketinggian -,-
terus gue PENGEN skydiving!! wawawaaa kayaknya seru tuh~~ terus juga pengen bungee jumping!! kalo bisa dari tempat bungee jumping tertinggi sedunia yaitu di Macau Tower hehe. Sama gue pengen bangeeet keliling dunia!! Pengen ketemu Taylor Lautner terus gue juga pengen beliin sesuatu yang mahal ke seseorang pake duit gue sendiri ehehe

terus ini target jangka pendek!! gue pengen naik kelas, lulus UAN, keterima di labschool atau 6 atau 82, sama punya pacar pertama dan very first date fufufu~~
Terus gue pengen ikutan lomba B.Inggris dan sampe ke tingkat nasional!! AMIEN

yah doain moga moga kesampean yaaa!

Overcoming a broken heart

Buat yang baru diputusin pacar, cinta gak berbalas.... atau apalah masalah dengan lovelife elo, daripada cuma nangis meratapi hidup lo yang *menurut lo* suram, mendingan move on! Ini tips dari gue, cliche but works for me :]

1. Talk about it.
Ceritain semuanya ke temen lo apa yang lo rasain. Pokoknya cerita SELENGKAP-LENGKAPNYA! Inget, cari temen yang mau dengerin dan temen yang lo percaya dan selalu dukung lo. Jangan sama asal orang!!
2. Write about it.
Jangan tulis di dunia maya!! Ntar orang bisa liat. Tulis aja di journal kalian pake tulisan gede-gede. Terserah mau nulis apa. Mau ngatain kek, mau apalah itu tulis aja! [This works for me!].
3. Sing your heart out!
Nyanyi lagu putus mungkin untuk beberapa orang mungkin bisa bikin hati ngerasa tenang. Tapi jangan nyanyi lagu yang ngingetin kamu sama dia! Ntar malah inget lagi.
4. Say NO to retail therapy/food therapy!
Retail therapy only makes your wallet empty, food therapy only makes you gain weight. Jadi jangan pernah coba opsi ini!!
5. Say NO to drugs/alcohol
It's a NO with a big N and O!!!!!!!! Gausah gue jelasin lagi kenapa lo gaboleh melakukan ini, malah JANGAN SAMPE KEBERSIT DI PIKIRAN LO UNTUK MAKE!!
6. Doa
Instead of cursing and swearing, mungkin ini the BEST OPTION yang harus lo coba. Buat yang muslim, wudhu, shalat. Kalau udah shalat wajib, shalat sunnah aja, terserah mau apaan. Atau baca Al-Quran dan bertasbih. Dijamin hati bakalan tenang
7. Move on!!
The medicines to a broken heart are time and friends, but mostly time.

THINGS TO REMEMBER!
Sementara itu, buang jauh-jauh pikiran that you're not worth dating!! Jangan pikir kalau dia itu irreplaceable. Tolong ya diinget kalo disana ada your own version of Prince Charming, dan lo gabisa langsung dapetin dia, lo harus ngerasain sakit hati dulu. Inget!!!!!!! Sakit hati itu bagian dari elo grow up! Bahkan celebrity se-famous Nicole Kidman dulu pasti pernah ngerasain kayak elo, nangis karena lovelife kurang memuaskan, sampe akhirnya ketemu Keith Urban dan punya anak perempuan yang cantik! Okaay?!

You know what blinds me?

L-O-V-E!
can't get him out of my head! Somebody distract me please :'(

Gampang banget ya untuk...

komplain soal masalah sendiri?
ngomongin orang?
mentingin diri sendiri?
ketawa diatas penderitaan orang lain?
niat?

ironis.

Sorry.

Akhir-akhir blog post gue depresi ato kesel.......yah kalo misalnya rasa kesel gue itu ga cukup buat gue ungkapin di twitter pasti blog gue yang jadi korban.
Kalo misalnya gue nulis soal nasihat, gue bakal terkesan menggurui.
Kalo misalnya gue nulis soal current issues, gue bakal terkesan sok tau.
Intinya...... gue takut orang gak segan sama hal yang gue tulis

You.... you.... know what i hate?

LOVING YOU, HATING YOU, AND REALIZE THAT THERE'S NO WAY I COULD GO ON A DAY WITHOUT LOVING YOU!

Errh...shit.

i missed writing.
i want to write.
but when i'm writing.
all i'm writing is some fucking problems.
i don't want to complain anything, and i don't want to be a fool.
i just want to live my life.

....and i don't give a shit to people who don't want me to.

P.S: I'm not attracted to South Asians and Middle Eastern people. I hope that does not make me a racist.

A Letter to Al Gore

[This is for Al Gore in my school, not Al Gore the Nobel Prize winner and environment hero]

Hey Al Gore, one word to describe you: LIFELESS. You don't know how much Angela Weber and I hate you. We hate you with a passion, because you just want the attention. Yes, we're not as smart as you, but just so you know there are a lot of smarter people out there but they spoke for the world, and you? FOR THE ATTENTION! I am QUITE sure as hell that you know that your invention is stupid and so.......... unimportant! Hell, you're calling yourself a professor! What a big, fat
narcissistic person you are! Isaac Newton [again, it's someone in my school] is WAY smarter than you and he acts like he's a normal person just like everybody! He is thankful for his marks, he works harder to get better grades but he's still thankful to God. Face the truth, honeybee--he is DIFFERENT. And you're also a big, fat, judging person and acts like, "Man, I have to study, no time to relax!". Which is SUCKS and don't represent your smart attitude at all. Wait, you're a smart person with no attitude!
YOU HAVE NO LIFE. You are just like those damn celebrities who seeks for the attention! Yep, you work hard, but you're such a showoff! You think that everybody loves you but they talk to you behind your back! You gotta accept that as a truth!
Hater,
Me